ho ho i think almost one week I've been stuck here for posting thing hahah. Ok~~~ back to topic hiak hiak hiak. Just now i have went to the KCH CG & currently this quater they were having this "WORK SHOP" to train up those young ppl. Hmmm indeed i think this is quite a good idea for us as well. OKOK~~ back to my topic, the theme for that particular CG is "Friendship". I know that this might be a common topic for us BUT hiak hiak this also can help us reflect back or recall back us in this area. So i would like to ask one question:
*What is your view regarding this what we called some sort of Friendship??? And also what is the quiterial for your friendship??
(Think of your self hahahah this is a KBKK question hahaha)
Actually there are few chapters in the Bible has shows us the meaning of friendship as well so lets look at:
1 Sam 18:1-3
1 After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself. 2 From that day Saul kept David with him and did not let him return to his father's house. 3 And Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself.
Proverbs 18:24
24 A man of many companions may come to ruin,
but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.
Proverbs 22:24-25
24 Do not make friends with a hot-tempered man,
do not associate with one easily angered,
25 or you may learn his ways
and get yourself ensnared.
16 If you find honey, eat just enough—
too much of it, and you will vomit.
17 Seldom set foot in your neighbor's house—
too much of you, and he will hate you.
Proverbs 27:5-6
5 Better is open rebuke
than hidden love.
6 Wounds from a friend can be trusted,
but an enemy multiplies kisses.
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
9 Two are better than one,because they have a good return for their work:
10 If one falls down,
his friend can help him up.
But pity the man who falls
and has no one to help him up!
11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
But how can one keep warm alone?
12 Though one may be overpowered,
two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
John 15:12-15
12My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. 13Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends. 14You are my friends if you do what I command. 15I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you.
Romans 12:15
12Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.
~As we know that friendship is just more than being friend, its a connection deep whithin the spiritual soul that is an unearned gift of love. True friendship is seen through a heart not an eye haha but we always tend to choose friend by their physical appearance haha INDEED.
* POP QUIZ TIME : How many true friend that u really can pillow talk with in your current life?
Friendship also is living things that last only as long as it is nourished with kindness, emphatic & understanding. Besides that, true friends understand being human and they will give other room to grow and a true friends are there when they are not expected to be presence as well. Other than that, they also know how cherish each other off. Friendship also brings light into your world, for it gives you the missing link to your soul.
Quizzz again =.=
* What is a friend??
* Why we need friendship??
~ A real friendship never expect anything in return of coz we dun take them as granted la. If when we are in a strange place which you don't know them in that area so what did u feel
?? So as we know that when there is a friend with us, we feel secure, happy, huge support & confortable. Friendship is a blessing, and a friend's channel through whom great emotional, spiritual & physical flow for instance friends can cheer us when we are sorrowful and depress. They also can challenge & motivate us as well.
HIGHTLIGHT
As we know that our new sem approaching and we will have some follow up as well so now i have some tips which can help every one of us.
1. Develope the real interest in people.
For example like knowing the news regarding them them & consistantly contact.
2. Taking genuines interest
For instance, impact / impart their life.
3. Learn to impart loving spirit to our people through expression
Such as speak genuinely, spend more times with them & invest time with them.
That end of this topic hahhaha BUT before it I just want to remind u guys that "there are "friends" whom destroy each other, but there is a rel friend who stick closer with us as brother" Mat 26: 49-50
